today at my bday bbq my friend's dad (friend of my parents) gave me some lecture about losing weight. he's overweight. and dieting, doing it "the hard way" he says. and he was totally looking down on me for having surgery. like what i did was the easy way out and he's doing it the old fashioned way. and insinuating that i would stretch out my stomach or gain it all back if i'm not careful. basically telling me things i already know. duh. he's getting on me because its my bday and i'm eating rice and cupcakes and whatever else. even though its in small amounts and i've eaten mostly protein shakes all week. *eye roll* people judge. they just love to judge. but thats ok. because i know its not about me. its about him. his struggles.
me? i'm happy. livin life. i don't feel the need to judge or lecture anyone! life isn't about being on a diet. diets don't work. gotta live life. realistically. everything in moderation.
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That is the worst. I hate when you are at a party and someone judges you for what you are eating when they don't know that you have accounted for those calories in a different way or are just eating in moderation. SO FRUSTRATING!
ReplyDeleteSo dumb! It was your birthday! Calories don't matter on that day!
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